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How to Get Comfortable Initiating Sex

Who should initiate sexual encounters? Well, everyone!

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But I’ve Never Initiated/Invited Someone Before!

Basic Do’s to Keep in Mind

Make it personal

Be clearer than clear

Make it a daylong pursuit

Learn their love language

Consent is the only constant

It’s helpful to remember that someone’s sexual rejection usually isn’t about you.

In casual hookups

The public meet

App life

In newly formed relationships

Someone you’ve hooked up with a few times

Someone you’ve been ‘seeing’ but haven’t had sex with yet

Someone who you’ve been dating and having sex with… but it’s new

In established relationships

In long-term relationships

Make a Yes, No, Maybe list

Go to a sex shop

Schedule sex

Take turns

Practice makes perfect

This post was originally published on this site

Written by Demeter deLune

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